第四十四章

听写Parents and Teenagers 3:00AM—3:15AM

Parents feel that it is difficult to live with teenagers. Teenagers have the similar feeling about the parents saying that: it is not easy living with them. According to recent research, the most common argument between parents and teenagers is that regarding untidiness and daily routine tasks. On the one hand, parents go mad over messy room, clothes thrown on the floor and children’s refusal to help with the housework. On the other hand teenagers lose their patience continually when parents blame them for dropping the towel in the bathroom, not cleaning up the room or refusing to do shopping in the supermarket. Sociologist say that communication is the most important thing in parents—child relationships. Parent should talk to their children. But at the same time parents should lend their ears to them what they have to say. Parents may scold their children when they are untidy. But they should also understand that the room is their own private space. Communication is a two-way process. It is only by listening to and understanding each other, the problems between parents and children can be settled.

今天的题材比较熟悉，所以花的时间比较少，基本都是全部听写出来了，想到这个的时候，不由自主的笑了笑，因为每天不放弃努力，然后道路正确，一定能取得自己满意的结果的，虽然有时候没有看到进步，但是哲学上有一句话是：在量变没有引起质变的时候，请保持一直的势能，每天只要进步了，不管看得见，看不见，都是值得非常开心的事情，努力一点点吧，小伙子。

姚天成想到这个的时候，眼前一亮，心中瞬间明了，因为学习的虽然枯燥，但是带来的效益还是不错的，而且学到手的东西就是自己的了，火烧不走，水冲不掉，真好。

另一方面，仇梦甜也在刻苦的努力着，还得照顾自己的妈妈，前面章节交代过的仇梦甜的母亲有郁躁症。

其实郁躁症真得非常通过的，人家情况都是有缓冲地带的，但是患有郁躁症的人，没有中间情感或是过渡情感的。

Sow a seed the earth will yield you a flower.

加油。仇梦甜，姚天成。