作为地球旅客,希望我们都会慢慢找到属于自己的最佳位置,在这个星球不虚此行。
As a global traveler, I hope we will find our best position slowly, and we will be on this planet.
和朋友聊天,跟她讲很想改改自己悲观的性格,不那么消极就好了。
她告诉我一个名人讲过:性格是没办法改的,强行改变自己的性格是最愚蠢的事情。
Chatting with friends, I told her that I really want to change my pessimistic character, not so negative.
She told me that a famous person once said: there is no way to change one's personality. It is the most stupid thing to change one's personality by force.
真的很喜欢张佳玮的这段话:
一个人在亿万千人中,找到一个合适自己的伴侣,一直都是大海捞针。
如果非要变强才恋爱,类似于“等我复习完了,希望老师出一套从头到尾我都恰好复习到的卷子”。
I really like Zhang Jiawei's remark:
One in hundreds of millions of people, find a suitable partner, has always been a needle in the sea.
If you have to be strong before you fall in love, it's similar to "when I finish reviewing, I hope the teacher will give me a set of papers that I just review from the beginning to the end.".
在宇宙当中,任何一件事情,概率都是极小的,所以不要没事瞎担心了 。
In the universe, the probability of anything is very small, so don't worry about it.
执拗地觉得,天气预报显示有雨,而我出门没带伞,但天也没下雨的时候,那是我跟老天爷赌赢了。
当然淋透湿也没关系,是宿命,也是一种浪漫。
Stubbornly feel that the weather forecast shows rain, and I went out without an umbrella, but it did not rain, it is my bet with God won.
Of course, it doesn't matter to get wet. It's fate and romance.
消除妒忌情绪其实很简单,最好的方法就是承认自己的弱点,接纳自己的不完美。
很多时候并不是妒忌的情绪让自己难过,而是自身没法承认别人的优秀和接纳自己的不足 。
承认自己普通,才能更容易感受到当下的幸福。
It's easy to eliminate jealousy. The best way is to admit your weakness and accept your imperfection.
Most of the time, it's not jealousy that makes me sad, but that I can't admit the excellence of others and accept my own shortcomings.
Only by admitting that you are ordinary can you feel the present happiness more easily.
像运动看书包括减肥这样的事情,最难的就是第一步!开始去做就等于完成百分之五十了。
Like sports reading, including weight loss, the most difficult thing is the first step! To start doing is to finish 50 percent.
我知道指望着小概率事件带来惊喜,过于幼稚可笑,但却依然渴望被大多数人定义的结局,在未来某一天绽放出奇迹。
让梦做久一点,不必着急醒来。我们总归是,还有一些明天的。
I know it's too naive and ridiculous to expect surprise from small probability events, but I still long for the outcome defined by most people to blossom miracles one day in the future.
Let dream a little longer, don't wake up in a hurry. After all, we have some for tomorrow.
每个人都会有自己高光的时刻,不必羡慕他人,更不要因为眼前的不如意而向这所谓的生活低头。
没有谁比谁更差些,别怀疑自己,要坚信自己努力后也终将会闪闪发光。
Everyone will have their own highlight of the moment, do not envy others, let alone because of the immediate dissatisfaction and bow to this so-called life.
No one is worse than anyone else. Don't doubt yourself. Believe that you will shine after your efforts.