一、藏好软弱 ,世界大雨滂沱 ,万物苟且而活 ,无人会为你背负更多 。
hide good weak, the world rain torrential, all things survive, no one will carry more for you.
二、你的善良必须有点锋芒,懂得适可而止。你的善良必须保持理智,懂得明辨真伪。你的善良必须带上脑袋,懂得人分善恶。
your kindness must have a bit of edge, know where to stop. Your kindness must be sensible and know the difference between truth and falsehood. Your goodness must take on a head that knows the difference between good and evil.
三、要生活得漂亮,需要付出极大忍耐,一不抱怨,二不解释。
to live a beautiful life, it takes a lot of patience, one does not complain, two does not explain.
四、奋斗吧,就为了往后不必费尽心思的去取悦别人,也能过上自己想要的生活。
Strive to live the life you want without having to bother trying to please others.
五、纵有三千烦恼,不如拈花一笑,看淡就会心安,放下就会释怀!
even if there are three thousand troubles, as nianhua a smile, see light will be at ease, put down will be relieved!
六、人生最重要的不是已经失去的, 也不是尚未得到的,而是此刻拥有的。不为往事扰,余生只愿笑。
The most important thing in life is not what is lost or has not been gained, but what is owned at the moment. Don't bother the past, the rest
Time is neither long nor short, for you never know who will come first tomorrow or tomorrow, but it is worth the effort to wait for the flowers to bloom.
十、好多年来,我曾有过一个“良好”的愿望,我对每个人都好,也希望每个人都对我好。只望有誉,不能有毁。最近我恍然大悟,那根本是不可能的。—— 季羡林
many years, I had a “good” wish, I am good to everyone, also hope everyone is good to me. Look only for good reputation, not destruction. It dawned on me recently that it's simply not possible.
十一、记住了,你的善良要留给那些懂得感恩的人,而不是那种将你的善良接受的理所应当,且会欲求不满得寸进尺的人。
Remember that your kindness should be reserved for those who are grateful, not those who take it for granted and demand more.
十二、不自夸沧桑,也不外露锋芒,始终秉持生活的诗意。大地上有足够的山水,安顿人生。不如在生命的暗夜里,种下一片桃花源。
Do not boast the vicissitudes of life, also do not expose the edge, always uphold the poetry of life. There are enough mountains and rivers on the earth to settle life. It is better to plant a peach garden in the dark night of life.
十三、人生有限,性格不同,我们终究是会有选择和缺憾,却难说孰优孰劣。
life is limited, different personality, we will eventually have a c