No.81

我们要尽量对孩子好一些，让他们在小时候尽量快乐。因为长大以后，他们会遇到很多痛苦，那时候，小时候的快乐就会成为他们最美好的回忆和安慰。

We should try to be nice to our children and make them happy when they are young. Because when they grow up, they will encounter a lot of pain. At that time, their childhood happiness will become their best memories and comfort.

许多年过去了，人们说陈年旧事可以被埋葬。然而我终于明白这是错的，因为往事会自行爬上来。

Many years have passed, and people say that old things can be buried. However, I finally understand that this is wrong, because the past will climb up on its own.

其实所有纠结做选择的人心里早就有了答案，咨询只是想得到内心所倾向的选择。最终的所谓命运，还是自己一步步走出来的。

In fact, all the people who are struggling to make choices already have the answer in their hearts. Consultation is just to get the choice they prefer. The ultimate so-called destiny, or step by step out of their own.

没有人会关心你变好的过程有多煎熬 他们只想知道现在的你是不是足够好 就像每一个人都想拥有成熟懂事的你 却不愿意花时间和精力陪你长大一样。

No one cares about how hard it is for you to become better. They just want to know whether you are good enough now, just like everyone wants to have mature and sensible people, but you are unwilling to spend time and energy with you to grow up.

恋爱最珍贵的纪念品，从来就不是那些,你送我的手表和项链，甚至也不是那些甜蜜的短信和合照。是你留在我身上的，如同河流留给山川的，那些你对我造成的改变。

The most precious souvenirs of love are never those. The watches and necklaces you sent me are not even those sweet messages and group photos. You left it on me, just like the river left it on the mountains, the changes you made to me.