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感觉出现了虫洞，又回到了2009年。北京依旧在经历沙尘暴，影院依旧在放阿凡达。

It's like a wormhole. It's back in 2009. Beijing is still experiencing sandstorms, and theaters are still showing avatar.

越长大越觉得，能有一群热气腾腾的朋友真的是种福气。

朋友的奇妙之处就在于，虽然你们没有血缘关系，但是磁场莫名的契合，彼此都心甘情愿地把时间和心思花在对方身上。

总之有他们在，再坏的日子也会变得温柔起来。

The older you grow up, the more you feel, it's really a blessing to have a group of hot friends.

The wonder of friends is that although you have no blood relationship, the magnetic field somehow fits each other, and each other willingly spends time and mind on each other.

In short, with them, the worst days will become tender.

每次分别都会说「后会有期哦」，「你要记得我哦」，但我心里清楚，我对于此并无把握。

I always say "see you later" and "remember me", but I know in my heart that I am not sure about it.

时间过得真快啊，小时候数着时间，长大了算着时间。

How time flies! When I was a child, I counted the time. When I grew up, I counted the time.

要时时刻刻提醒自己，只有一直努力结果才不会很差，我们都认真一点，时间过得这么快，现在去做一点什么，完全来得及。

We should always remind ourselves that only by working hard all the time, the result will not be very bad. We should all be more serious. Time passes so fast. Now we can do something in time.

当我不觉得我特殊时，我就长大了。

从那天开始，我贯彻决不出风头 。

I grew up when I didn't feel special.

From that day on, I will never be in the limelight.

很长时间以来，我一直认为每一次告别之后还会重逢，然后继续告别重逢。

但如今渐渐发现，当我抱着这种想法跟别人告别，并期待着下一次重逢时，重逢那一刻大部分都没有到来。

For a long time, I always thought that we would meet again after every farewell, and then continue to say goodbye and meet again.

But now I gradually find that when I say goodbye to others with this idea and look forward to the next reunion, most of the reunion moment has not come.

也许未来某天会再次见面，也许一辈子再也不会见，但无论如何，我总算是学会了一件事：珍惜每一次的告别。

Maybe I will meet again one day in the future, maybe I will never see you again in my life, but anyway, I have learned one thing: cherish every farewell.

其实我一点也不抗拒未来。

于自身而言，时间往前推进的每一年，都要比上一年要好，比上一年学到的东西要多。

更清楚自己想要的，以及无法做到的无法给他人的东西。

我也观察过不少那些长大了的人，他们都很好，温和不慌张，有能力有底气和判断力。

I can't resist the future at all.

For itself, every year that time goes forward is better than the previous year, and more than the previous year.

Be more aware of what you want and what you can't do that can't give to others.

I have also observed many of those who have grown up, who are very good, gentle and not flustered, and have the ability to have the spirit and judgment.