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谁都不是最完美的那个，不必拘泥于别人的看法。

每个人都不会被谁完全理解。都是独立的个体，做好自己就可以的，别和自己较真儿。

No one is the perfect one. You don't have to stick to other people's opinions.

Everyone will not be fully understood by anyone. They are all independent individuals. Just be yourself. Don't be more serious with yourself.

很少有觉得孤单的时候，而且我真的很爱自己去做什么事！

之前还在意别人的眼光，担心自己看起来很可怜！但后来越来越觉得，只要是一个人的能力可以办到的事，就都可以一个人大大方方去做。

一个人看电影也好，吃火锅拿快递做作业也好，值得开心的事根本没有单人活动还是群体活动的区分，不管几个人一起做，能保持快乐最大化就好啦！

Rarely feel lonely, and I really love what I do!

Before also care about other people's eyes, worried that they look very poor! But later, more and more people feel that as long as one person's ability can do things, one person can do them in a big way.

There is no distinction between single person activities and group activities. No matter how many people work together, it's good to keep the happiness maximized!

如果总是太过在意别人如何看待自己，那么这种通过为他人着想而忽略自我感受的行为，还是尽早停下来吧。

If you always care too much about what others think of you, you'd better stop as soon as possible.

我最怕别人为我牺牲，凡是用到这种字眼的人，事后都要后悔的。

将来天天有一个人向我提着当年如何为我牺牲的话，我受不了。

I am most afraid that others will sacrifice for me. Anyone who uses such words will regret it afterwards.

In the future, there will be a person who asks me how to sacrifice for me every day. I can't stand it.

放松点，不用和每个人都要好，也不用被每个人都喜欢。

Relax. You don't have to be nice to everyone or be liked by everyone.

大方表达自己的诉求真的很重要，喜欢也好，不喜欢也好，很多话你不说清楚就是给了别人装傻的机会，到头来难受的还不是你自己。

It's really important to express your complaint generously. Whether you like it or not, if you don't make it clear, you'll give others the chance to pretend to be stupid. In the end, it's you who suffer.

真的没必要在意别人怎么看你，在喜欢你的人眼里，你怎么样都是可爱的。

是不需要你刻意讨好，不需要你努力假装的那种可爱。

你就踏踏实实做好你自己，一定会有人这样爱着你。

Really do not need to care about how others see you, in the eyes of people who like you, how you are lovely.

It doesn't need you to flatter and pretend to be cute.

If you do yourself well, someone will love you like this.

自信并非是“坚信别人一定会喜欢自己”，而真正的自信该是“就算别人不喜欢自己”也没有任何关系。

反正不被喜欢，自己也能过得足够好，而不是依附于别人的喜欢才过得开心快乐。

Confidence is not "believe that others will love themselves", but the real confidence is that "even if others don't like themselves" it doesn't matter.

Anyway, if you don't like it, you can live well enough, not just depend on others' likes to have a good time.

人生方向和别人不同也没什么的！有人想去外面看看，但也有人只想待在家里。

世界上哪有固定的评判标准，只要你身处想在的地方，什么都阻止不了你快乐！

The direction of life is different from others, it's nothing! Some people want to go outside, but others just want to stay at home.

There is no fixed criterion in the world. As long as you are where you want to be, nothing can stop you from being happy!