“Overburdened love”

Heavy love means that this love is too heavy, some can't afford it, which makes you feel too depressed and not as relaxed as at first. Love is a beautiful feeling, with incredible magical effect, which can be erected like a bridge, giving people courage and strength, so that people can get the motivation and hope to keep moving forward even if they shoulder heavy responsibilities.

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负重的爱意思是这份爱太过沉重，有些负担不起，让你觉得心情过分压抑，没有刚开始的轻松自在了。爱是一种美好的感情，具有不可思议的神奇效果，可以如桥梁一般架设，给人以勇气和力量，使人即便重任在肩，也能获得持续前行的动力和希望。

文淇喜欢和爱不一样，喜欢只是出于一种好感，而爱却是包容；因为一个优点可以喜欢一个人，而爱是喜欢她所有的优点与缺点；喜欢一个人可以恋爱，而爱一个人可以结婚，所以恋爱和结婚不一样。恋爱是有期限的，时间久了，感情可能就淡了；而结婚是要一辈子的，时间再久，也不会腻烦。

木南许多人恋着，爱着，喜欢着，最后真正能走到一起结婚的，当属幸运。于千万人之中遇上了那个对的人，恰好你喜欢她，她也喜欢你，或热烈，或含蓄，陷入情网，恋爱由最初的浓烈甜蜜，渐渐归于平淡，渐渐深入骨髓，随着光年流转，韶华逝去，历经几度秋叶凋零、春意盎然，你仍对她的情意不减，她亦对你的爱恋愈增，你们终于携手走向人生中最重要的时刻，在礼堂里众多亲朋好友的见证下，你许诺爱她一生不悔，她回你此生有你足矣，你们交换戒指，抱在一起的那个刹那，就注定了永恒。

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This kind of ending makes many people yearn for envy, because many people always have to take some detours at first and experience something before they can know how to cherish and find happiness. However, after some people have happiness, there will always be conflicts for various reasons. If they are not properly resolved, the longer the days go by, the more anguish they accumulate in their hearts, and gradually they become an inextricable knot in their hearts. The longer they get, the more painful they get. I don't know which day, because a small matter has aroused a backlog of internal heat, it will quickly become a prairie fire. What they say is insincere because of anger, hurting others and making many things change their direction. Onlookers have to sigh. It really shouldn't, shouldn't end like this, shouldn't end like this, and shouldn't be strangers because of this little thing.

We are always used to thinking from our own point of view; I am always used to comparing what I see with what I am familiar with; I am always used to explaining other people's behaviors and thoughts with my own cognition and understanding ... but in fact, too heavy love is also a burden.

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这样的结局当令许多人渴慕艳羡，因为很多人一开始总要走一些弯路，经历一些事，才会懂得珍惜，才能找到幸福。而有的人拥有了幸福之后，也总会有因为各种原因产生矛盾，如果没能好好化解，日子越久，积蓄在心里的苦闷越多，渐渐在心中成为一个解不开的结，越久硌得越疼，不知哪天因为某件小事勾起了积压的火气，便迅速成了燎原之势，说出口的话因为怒火而言不由衷，伤人伤己，令许多事改变了方向。旁观者只得叹息一声，实在不该，不该这样收场，不该这样结束，不该因为这点小事形同陌路。

　　我们总是习惯站在自己的角度上考虑问题；总是习惯用自己熟悉的事物场景来将看到的景致作对比；总是习惯以自己的认知和理解去解释别人的行为与思想……但其实太沉重的爱也是一种负担