文淇Always give good temper to outsiders and leave bad temper to the closest relatives.
“总是把好脾气给了外人,把坏脾气留给了最亲的人”
文淇我们总是把最好的脾气给了别人,却把最坏的脾气留给了家人。
文淇有时候,我们明知他们会受伤,还是会在看家人不顺眼,便横加指责…
文淇在期待未被满足时间,便嘶吼咆哮;在家人如有错时,便恶言相向。
木南“对待外人的彬彬有礼,有可能只是处世的圆滑,而将好态度留给爱的人,才是深入骨髓的教养。”
木南因在家人面前,会卸下所有的伪装、面具,表现出一个人真实的一面。
文淇而《礼记.大学》里说“身修而后家齐,家齐而后国治。”
文淇一个人想要有更大成绩,首先处理好自己对家人的态度。
木南一家不和,何以万事兴呢?
木南其实很多人不知道,把微笑留给家人,会让幸福指数直线上升。
木南如果说一个人在外的举止代表个人形象素质,那么在家的言行就影响着一个家庭的氛围,其实,善待家人,才是一个家庭最好的风水。
文淇“因为你知道最亲的人不会离开你”

文淇Because you will still have scruples when you are outside, for fear of saying the wrong thing and losing your temper, which will lead to the loss of some contacts or money. But in the face of those closest to you, you will have no scruples because you subconsciously think that they will not leave you, so you will lose your temper with them and vent all your experiences outside. However, most people often forget that those closest to them will suffer some bad things outside, but they leave the best side to you and bear all the bad emotions without caring about you. So you must cherish those who suffer from your bad temper and give you comfort. Please don't hurt those closest to you invisibly.
“因为在外还会有所顾忌,怕说错话发错脾气,导致失去一些人脉或者钱财。但是面对那些最亲的人,你就会毫无顾忌因为你潜意识里认为他们不会离开你,所以你才会肆无忌惮对着他们发脾气,宣泄自己在外面一切遭遇。但是,往往大多数人都忘了,那些最亲的人也会在外面受气遭遇一些不好的事,但是他们却把最好的一面留给你,自己承受着一切不好的情绪还不和你计较。所以一定要珍惜那样受着你的坏脾气,还给你安慰的人,请不要再给那些最亲的人无形的伤害了。”
文淇The worst thing I have ever done is to give my bad temper to my family and my good temper to someone who doesn't deserve it.
“我做过的最差劲的事,就是把坏脾气给了家人,把好脾气给了不值得的人。”
木南Why do we always leave our bad temper to our families? Probably because love makes people unscrupulous.
“为什么我们总是把坏脾气都留给家人,大概因为爱让人肆无忌惮吧。”
文淇Being with your family is the most important thing. In addition, don't leave your bad temper to the person who loves you the most, no matter how difficult it is, we must work hard.
“对家人的陪伴才是最重要的,另外,不要把坏脾气留给最爱你的人,再难我们也要努力。”
木南I hope I can grow up, at least I don't always leave my bad temper to my family.
“希望我能成熟点,至少不要总把坏脾气留给家人。”